So what do you do when......?

ok so im confused, i still sumtymes tlk to my ex bf we wer togeta for almost 3yrs, but now we bn broken up for a year now, and i love him but not like i used to, i care for him and everything and always will, but i like this other guy, but hes a playa type of guy, but i kno he likes me too, but hes jus not a one girl kinna guy, so idk if it wud eva even work, but somethin tells me he wans to be friends wit benifits, but i really dont wanna do that either, but ikinna wanna be with him and for him to change up his ways, but idk, and then my exs friend likes me and just asked me out yesturday and i mean i just see the guy as a friend and id never go out with one of my exs friends, but yea i wanna tlk more to the guy i like, do you think i should?